Sexual Magic - What you never thought about asking

Sexual Magic uses the power of sex to create change in the world, according to the will of the officiants.

Contrary to what many think it  is one of the most difficult practices (but also one of  the most rewarding) that can be performed.

Despite what is indicated by a number of "experts" mentioning (without having read or understood) the Illuminates of Thanateros or the work of Paschal Beverly Randolph, sexual magic is not just concentrating on a target during the moment of orgasm, unless that one is working solo. And even solo work requires more than that. Otherwise, every teenager (boy or girl) who masturbates 4 times a day as they think of their favorite star, would have sex with said star or at least with someone that looks like him/her and is available. We've all been teenagers. Do I need to say more?

In fact, this kind of magical operation, like all magical operations to have success requires a lot of serious and careful previous work.

That being said, I will present a list of all the requirements and details which I think are important for a successful operation, with no regrets.

1 - Define exactly what you will do.

Are you going to work alone or with someone else?

If you’re going to work with other people, how many  will be involved?

With retention of orgasm, with orgasm, or orgasm as an offering to an Entity?

Will some of the players take the role of (or incorporate) an Entity? How to act if the Entity decides not to participate?

Sex. Vaginal, oral, anal, or a combo?

2 - Precautions

We are talking about sex. This requires care to avoid unwanted pregnancies and / or transmission of venereal diseases. Anyone who is stupid enough not to consider prophylactic care is too stupid to practice magic. There are also required magical precautions to avoid being parasitized by creatures like incubus, succubus, or any other type of vampiric entity, incarnate or not.

3 - Accessories

I'm not talking about dildos. Candles, torches, incense, should be at a safe distance and properly fixed to ensure that there are no accidents. If the operation is performed on an altar, you should have minimal protections to ensure that people realize if they’re close to the edge  and avoid falling. I suggest a plastic cover on the altar cloth in case of anal sex. The mixture of sperm, lubricant and the occasional fecal matter creates stains very hard to remove.

4 - Food & beverage

Before, during or after, the officiants can share food and drink. Please respect the restrictions that some people may have. Confirm if anyone has any food allergies. With the impressive amount of recovering alcoholics and drug addicts there are, it is criminal to mix alcohol or any other type of intoxicants  in candy, juice or other products without previously informing all participants. Do not assume that people know. Many are ashamed to admit an addiction. ASK. Or simply avoid the use of such intoxicants.

5 - Energy work

The last time I discussed this, a lady interrupted me in a deeply rude way and said I was stupid. She offered the act of love to the Goddess and nothing more was needed. To use a euphemism, I will say that the lady was distraught when I clarified that offering the act of love to the Goddess is a devotional religious practice and not a magic act, although it can be inserted into a magical practice.

Even when you want nothing more than to give a show to the Gods, I strongly advise you to practice energy work. It increases the intensity and draws attention of the entities in a way that nothing else can. For those who intend to use the energy of orgasm for the implementation of a project, energy work enhances this energy, harmonizes practitioners, facilitates concentration, enhances the pleasure and feeds the magic.

6 - Concentration

Imagine you are in the act, moving in harmony with the other (or others) person (s). Simultaneously you’re chanting a mantra, circulating your energy together with the other person and focusing on your goal. Does it seem difficult? It is.  Yes I know that any practitioner of magic with minimal practice can concentrate more and better than most people. That may not be sufficient. I will make a suggestion that may seem ridiculous, but it is extremely practical. I suggest that the officiants have dance classes. Seriously !

Think of it as a magic workout. Anyone that can focus on a difficult thing as a rumba or tango and simultaneously circulate it’s energy together with his / her partner (s), is ready to perform sexual magic.

7 Some male problems

a) How to retain orgasm.

The most widely known technique is the contraction  of pubococcygeus muscle, supplemented with or without pressure on the perineum. Not a bad technique, but I suggest you practice another technique, which although more difficult is more effective and does not have any of the problems that this can place.

Before the ejaculation, the testicles are pulled up by a set of muscles. Some Chinese schools advise men that when they feel the approach of orgasm they should gently pull the testicles down. Personally I think it is better to train to identify the abdomen muscles that pull the testicles up and relax them consciously. With practice, the balls fall down and remain down for the entire duration of the sexual act.

b) Erection.

You trained and memorized all the ritual, the energy is stirring  within you  like an immense dragon, you face a woman (or man) absolutely fascinating, the fateful hour is approaching and suddenly ... the willie decides it's time for a nap.

Relax. Don’t do a drama.

But to avoid such situations, once again I advise for previous solo training.

During a period of 6 to 12 weeks before the date of the ritual, preferably at the same time, isolate and caress yourself  until you have an erection. Take a deep breath, do a ritual gesture and say a specific  word / phrase. Repeat the process. Repeat it several  times. After a few weeks of training, doing the  gesture  with the word or phrase causes an erection. This is one of the few times that I  advise the gesture + phrase to be complex to avoid any problems or constraints. What kind of constraints? Imagine that  you associated the erection with the word toes. One day you’re dining at friend's house and his wife asks "More potaTOES? "- I leave the rest to your imagination.

8 - Keep calm and develop a sense of humor.

There are always unexpected and embarrassing situations. If the gentleman relax the muscles and inadvertently releases gas, if the ladies private parts start a symphony, if a spider drops  from the ceiling and lands on the head of one of you, smile and ignore.

9 - And after the ritual?

Remember that you and the other person(s) are only human.

That beam of light made flesh whose energy shatters the fears and sufferings, after practice returns to being just a man, that needs to pee and that if he is all day over his feet will smell of toe cheese. That Goddess whose words create the strings of fate, after practice becomes a woman who may have bad breath in the morning and hot flashes twice a day.

We are only human beings, even when we’re  occasionally Gods.